Headshot Anxiety, An IWSG Post
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My birthday was Monday. I turned 55.
Double nickels.
On the downhill slide...
Just kidding. I'm honestly okay with getting older. As my father used to say, getting older beats the hell out of the alternative. Or as I often remind myself: getting older is a blessing denied to too many.
So, if I'm fine with being a bit longer in the tooth*, how is this an insecure post?
Just kidding. I'm honestly okay with getting older. As my father used to say, getting older beats the hell out of the alternative. Or as I often remind myself: getting older is a blessing denied to too many.
So, if I'm fine with being a bit longer in the tooth*, how is this an insecure post?
The problem is I need a new headshot. My old one is the me of ten or so years ago and it was done by my friend who is a professional photographer and was savvy enough to diagnose my photo problems:
The main one being that I am exceedingly awkward so it's hard to get a natural smile. She solved the problem by NOT saying cheese. Instead, she pretended to be working on the lighting and we talked and joked as she sneakily snapped photos.
Then there is that issue of me being a double blinker so most photos of me are with my eyes closed.
The solution might seem obvious: call up my friend and get another headshot.
The problem is my sweet nephew is trying his hand at photography and he asked to be given the opportunity. I agreed. Then I found out he's uses last generation technology with actual film that has to be processed before you see the photo. We took some pictures and now I'm waiting like I'm back in the 1980's to see how many Chandler Bing shots he got of me.
Which leads me to wonder...why does writing have to be so much more than words??
*Did you know that as we age our teeth look longer because our gums are receding and showing more of the tooth root? That's why the teeth get more sensitive too...that and the eroding enamel. Got to love the aging process!
Thanks to this month's awesome co-hosts! Feather Stone, Kim Lajevardi, Diedre Knight, C. Lee McKenzie, and Sarah - The Faux Fountain Pen!
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Happy Anniversary to my son and his wife! They're a beautiful couple living their own Happily Ever After! And Happy Birthday to my first niece who was lucky enough to almost share a birthday with her aunt. She's an Elizabeth too, so it's Elizabeth week!
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Happy Birthday, Youngster! 🎂💐🎈Receding gums, teeth look longer. So that's where the expression Long in the tooth comes from 🤣
ReplyDeleteClever! I can't use that one, now . . .
DeleteYou made my day, ladies!
DeleteHappy birthday! You're still younger than I am.
ReplyDeleteHe shoots film? I didn't know that still existed.
I didn't either! I'm not sure where he's buying it.
DeleteHappy Birthday! I'm sure the photos will turn out great!
ReplyDeleteI didn't need to watch that Friends clip - but I did anyway! :) - because I totally remember it. Too funny. :)
I love that show. I did that clip and ended up watching a few more. :)
DeleteHappy birthday to the birthday girls and happy anniversary to the wedded ones. You've a long way to go before you're old - I should know!
ReplyDeleteThank you! That's a great way to think of it!
DeleteHappy Birthday! Good luck with the headshot. I take terrible pictures and would need a pro to take mine.
ReplyDeleteI may have to default to the headshot pro in the end. We shall see.
DeleteLove this post. Ears sag too (I'm almost 82) and gravity takes over on all. You've lots to look forward to. :-)
ReplyDeleteSorry I'm the Anonymous .. meant to say Happy Birthday, too.
ReplyDeleteNot so Anonymous - Jo Castillo, jocastilloart.com
DeleteJo, I think blogging keeps people young and sharp. I would've guessed you were in the 50 range as well!
DeleteHappy birthday! My head shot is even older and I need a new one. I'm waiting for that perfect hair and body day.
ReplyDeleteI was too, but I was beginning to doubt it's going to happen.
DeleteHappy birthday, kiddo! Wait till you get to my age! Hugs, Valerie
ReplyDeleteKiddo. Thank you for saying that :)
DeleteHappy Birthday! Wow, old school photos. Nice!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteHappy birthday! I love that your friend got those sneaky pictures of you. I have a hard time with my eyes looking normal in photos, too. If they're not closed, for some reason it looks like I have a lazy eye sometimes even though I don't!
ReplyDeleteShe is an award winning pro!. I wonder if you're a double blinker too? I get the lazy eye look a lot too. I think it's catching my eyes closing.
DeleteHappy birthday. I'll trade you! LOL
ReplyDeleteI need a headshot, too. Not looking forward to that...
You're beautiful. Get that headshot...but get a digital photo you can approve immediately. LO L
DeleteHope you had a great birthday. I feel your pain on the photos. I have such a hard time, although recent pictures haven't been too bad, so either I'm feeling more relaxed in my body or I need to wear my reading glasses more often!
ReplyDeleteA lot of people are choosing to use film again. I love it for the aesthetics, but not for the waiting around. That scene in Friends is so relatable.
I honestly didn't think anyone used it anymore. Kind of like vinyl records. People liking those surprised me too.
DeleteHappy birthday, Photo Twin! I have the exact same issues with getting photos taken. My husband is a decent photographer, but I know he gets frustrated with how awkward and wooden I look. Oh, and I also tend to look away from the camera, so I always look shifty in photos. I need an updated headshot for my new job, and I'm dreading it so much.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad I'm in good company! I am a tiny bit envious of those people who enjoy pictures. They have so much less stress in their lives. LOL
DeleteAnd may you have even more happy birthdays ahead! Trust me, double nickle is nearly a teenager! And, will you post your favorite 'new' head shot? Hmmm. I wonder if readers (new or continuing) really look at our photos. And what is it that we writers want? To look accessible? Friendly? Creative? Aargh! Nobody has ever commented on my bio pic. So, I guess we just say 'cheese' and hope for the best!
ReplyDeleteVery good point. What is it readers are looking for? A writer who looks rich so you know they're capable of writing a best seller? LOL
DeleteI echo CJ. Happy Birthday, Youngster:) And I guarantee you take better photos than I. I am the least photogenic person i the world.
ReplyDeleteSandra sandracox.blogspot.com
Thank you!
DeleteWe could have a competition on most awkward photo taker.
My official author photo was done nearly 15 years ago by my daughter in law, a professional photographer. She also did the photos for my cookbook, Farm Girl Country Cooking. I have no intention of changing it no matter how old I get!
ReplyDeleteA perpetual photo. That's something to consider...
DeleteHappy Anniversary and Birthday to the rest of the family, as well.
ReplyDeleteSandra sandracox.blogspot.com
Thank you!
DeleteI feel ya! What gets me is the age of my grandkids. I just can't lie to myself anymore. lol
ReplyDeleteOr when I have to keep scrolling and scrolling to get to the year I was born. LOL
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