Farewells...IWSG for May 2023

World Castle, the small press most of my books are published with, had a horrible April. We lost not one, but two of the greatest ladies in the group. When I first signed with WC, Fran would answer all of my stupid newbie writer questions and offer me advice on everything from writing to cat food. She was a book lover, award-winning poet, and author. 

Fran passed away in April after a battle with breast cancer. 

Fran's Books
Fran's Writings

I found out about Fran's passing when I stopped by the private WC author group to check up the health of  on one of my favorite editors in the universe, Maxine Bringenberg. Maxine was the editor on a couple of my books and I absolutely LOVED working with her. She was funny, intelligent, and oh so good at helping me get a story to just the right place without making me pout or feel like I was inept with words. At the opening of Hoosier Dad, her note said...this opening line would be fine for most writers, but I expect more from you. How's that for a spoon full of sugar with the medicine? That's just how Maxine was. Thoughtful in her wisdom. 

Since Maxine was an editor and didn't have a public page, I'm not adding one of her personal photos.  I did take a meme from her Facebook page that shows her love of words and family. 

So, what does this have to do with insecurity? It's a reinforcing reminder to me that time is limited. When it comes to my writing, I always allow it to take the first hit when I'm busy. I've started saying no to a few things so I have more time for writing, which has sparked huge levels of insecurity. I'm not good at saying no.  

I'll also add in a lifestyle insecurity. I spend a lot of time with my butt in a chair. I know I need to change that, but knowing and doing are two different things. 

I'll sign off now with a hug. We may never meet in real life, but through our words, you are my friend and you matter. Take care of yourself. Write something today. Enjoy the journey. Even if we don't rack up cash, the friends we make in the process are better than gold. 

A special thanks to the IWSG team of admins and to this month's awesome co-hosts Joylene Nowell Butler, Ronel Janse van Vuuren, Meka James, Victoria Marie Lees, and M Louise Barbour!