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Can you believe it's October?

I can't. Pretty soon I'll have to put away my flip flops, and that makes me sad. Even the upside of winterizing, AKA ending daily leg shaves and toe nail polishes, the legs and feet  doesn't console me.

It was just July, right? Now suddenly, it's October?

Wow.

Speaking of sneaking up, my son got a letter from his college. His tendency to take extra hours each semester made him eligible for early graduation.

He was shocked. He hasn't even applied to a single law school. What would he do if he quit his undergrad early?

I was shocked, too. I'm seriously NOT ready to be the mom of a college grad. I mean, when you're kids are in school, it evokes images of school buses and lunch bags. Sure your student has a full beard and an ID to buy alcohol...you can still pretend they're still that same little fella who asked you to search two malls for that one certain Power Ranger shirt.

So, I told him to stay in school another semester. Everyone needs a triple minor, right?


Thanks to our hosts in this weekly check in: LexaL.G, and Tonja Drecker
1. I am back in edit mode. I got started today and completely forgot to quit until my husband got home from work. Sure, he caught me looking like something you'd see at Walmart in the wee hours, but I was getting something done.
2. My son takes his LSAT to get into law school on Saturday. It's his second attempt. His first score was a 163 (which is a great score), but the guy who had graduation sneak up on him needs a 170.
3. The IWSG Anthology challenge is coming! Are you signed up?



Welcome Jessie Andersen! Jessie is a long-time writer friend going way back to pre-blog/publication days. Wow. We're getting old. 

Jessie's new book is out now and is FREE this Friday and Saturday! 
Even if you have no time to read it now, grab the download and read it later. 

Now, here's Jessie!!


THE ODD MAN OUT

Andersen_headshotOne of the things I love about the Hidden City in my book, THE BREEDING TREE is that they accept and love everyone despite their differences. Kate mentions how there are people who are different, physically and mentally, from what she’s used to. Differences are good. They challenge us and help us to appreciate the vastness that is humanity. I learned this lesson from living in a small town of about 500 people.

If you happen to be in my town and mention the name Phyllis, everyone knows who you're talking about. Most people probably couldn't even tell you her last name (Cline) because she was simply known as Phyllis.

Phyllis would sit on the bench outside the Superette, cigarette hanging from her mouth. Her frumpy clothes hadn't seen a wash in weeks and judging from the grease, neither had her hair. But this didn't stop the townspeople from loving her. This was how it was every day until the snow fell: Phyllis on the bench. When the weather turned, you could find her at a table in the back of the Superette, chatting or eating with the townsfolk who gathered there. Every day from morning until the sun set, you could find Phyllis at the Superette.

In the spring and summer, my husband and I would take daily walks with our kids hauled behind us in a wagon. Inevitably, Phyllis would be sitting on her bench. "What are your kids' names?" she'd ask. And we'd tell her. "They're so cute," she'd say. She'd attempt conversation with them, but being young and seeing this strange woman scared them into silence. Day after day it would be the same. "What are your kids' names?" … "They're so cute." Until finally, years later, she began to remember. Then she'd see me without them in tow and ask me how the kids were.

On occasion Phyllis would launch into a more interesting story, sometimes asking awkward or personal questions no one in their right might would ask a stranger on the street. She'd also talk about her past. The older she got the more outrageous the stories became, for her mind, which was never strong, failed with each passing year.  You see, according to her, she was related to Elvis...and Lucy.

I have memories of her from my childhood. She lived in the small apartment on the main street for as long as I can remember. We'd walk down the street on an evening when the air had cooled and hear her talking to people. People who weren't there. She'd even yell at them and occasionally swear at them.

 Then there was the time that she joined the wedding party, dancing in the local fire hall at a wedding reception...that she wasn't invited to. But that was her way. The party had moved into the truck bay to take advantage of the warm, humid night, and hearing the music, Phyllis and her husband, Henry, saw it as an opportunity to have a good time without paying a cent, for you see, they didn't have a cent. So off they went to join the party, to swing each other around, and to hoot and holler like only Phyllis and Henry could. Though I didn't witness it, my guess is they helped themselves to whatever was to eat. And the people let them.

My mother always said that Phyllis could only survive in a place like our small town where the people would take care of her. I learned later that those who spent time with her, listening to her stories for hours on end in the Superette were also the ones who helped her balance her checkbook and pay her bills after her husband died. The people here, even the young ones engaged her in conversation when she had no one else to talk to. This isn't a town that merely tolerated her presence, ignored her and hoped she'd go away. No. These people accepted her. Loved her. Cared for her when she couldn't do it herself.

Now that she's gone, I feel like an icon of our community is missing. That a piece of who we are has been taken away. And I grieve to think that my kids will have no memory of Phyllis. No opportunity to step out of their comfort zones and care for someone who was strange, dirty, and awkward. To love someone who had no one else. No one except the 500 or so members of a town who loved her.

What about you? Who has influenced your life in a way you never thought possible?

THE BREEDING TREE-- final cover
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Is the opportunity to create the next generation of life a dream come true or a deadly nightmare? 

When seventeen year old Katherine Dennard is selected to become a "Creation Specialist" in Sector 4, the opportunity sounds like a dream come true. But Kate soon discovers the darker side of her profession - the disposal of fetal organs and destruction of human life. It makes sense, really. In a society where disease and malformations don t exist, human perfection demands that no genetic "mutants" be allowed to live. For Sector 4, "survival of the fittest" is not just a theory - it's The Institute's main mission. 

When Kate discovers that The Institute is using her DNA to create new life, her work gets personal. In order to save her unviable son, she'll have to trust Micah and his band of underground Natural Born Rebels. The problem is, if The Institute discovers her betrayal, the next body being disposed of could be hers.




Happy Monday!

It's still snowing here. School is still getting canceled, delayed, and otherwise not happening. Conner (boy #4) is all excited. He's thinking if the nine weeks ends without ever having been to school, he should be an easy shoe in for a 4.0.

Did I mention his career goals are to become a taxidermist/trapper/farmer?

I asked him if he could earn a living with that combo, and he assured me he'd have plenty of money to live comfortably in our basement.

Ah yes. My baby boy.

And speaking of boys...

This weekend, I must have gotten this video from six different people. Posted to Facebook, emailed, and tweeted...people wanted me to know...this video reminded them of me.

I must say- I watched it and every word this lady sings is truth.

Raising boys was/is a trip...well worth the broken furniture, the smelly cleats, and $1,000 car insurance bill.




Now, before you go...be sure to visit me on my tour stops.

@Carrie Butler's discussing cool spy terms.








Tour Stops; Cover Drops



Busy, busy day today!!
 I've never claimed to be a scheduling guru and overbooking myself is what I do best, so I am at 3 stops today!


Ashley Chappell's to explain why I went small press.

Annalisa Crawford's on Reader Feedback

Fanny Barnes Thornton on birthday candles


And I also have the pleasure of having Jessie Andersen stop by with her new cover for her short story, Lemons!


Hi, everyone!  Thanks for stopping by to check out the cover. I’d like to thank Elizabeth for having me.  I’m really excited to share my new cover with you, but first, let me tell you a bit about Lemons, which will release on FEBRUARY 13, 2014. Be sure to check it out on Amazon.


LEMONS BLURB:
They say when life throws you lemons to make lemonade, but when Ally finds herself in the biggest pickle of her life—stranded on an island in the middle of a lake—fruit and veggies are the least of her worries. Now she’ll have to face the harsh realities of her selfish choices, which means dealing with what happened between her parents a few years ago.
Wanna see the cover now?

Well, here it is!!



If you’d like to know a little more about me and my writing, read on.
My first book, At What Cost was published in 2012. I’ve been writing and writing since then and have nearly completed a dystopian series, which is being sent to publishers. In the meantime, I wrote a short story.  Not sure exactly where it came from. I don’t consider myself a short story writer, but hey, when it comes to you, you have to get it out.

photo credit: Helico via photopin cc

Tough Girl


Let me get the blog tour bizness out of the way fast...'cause Use Your Words has a visitor today!!

The HEALING SUMMER blog tour is heading north and south. Posting from Alabama is Ashley Chappell and she wants to know..."What's it like working for the man?"
And live (or scheduled) from New York, is Jessie Andersen and she provided the prompt: "Family".

Now, I am excited to bring you Libby Heily!! 

I just finished reading Libby's book, "Tough Girl" this weekend and I can honestly say...this book is exactly why I like to read self-pubbed books. I'm going to rip an analogy from Forest Gump just so we can keep this post moving and get on to Libby...self-pubbed is like a box of chocolates. All kinds of flavors and surprises. Sure sometimes you grab a coconut one and you hate coconut, but other times, it's a caramel melt-away and it makes you go, "Mmm," and then you have to eat four more trying to find another. 

"Tough Girl" is a caramel melt-away. This book was anything but a light, brain shrinking read. It's laden with rich characters and symbolism. It was like S.E. Hinton's "Outsiders" only poor Reggie has no food and her best friend is imaginary.

Bravo Ms. Heily! 
Now entertain me...all the talk of chocolate has me looking for a snack.

Thanks for letting me drop by Elizabeth!  I'm so excited to be a guest on your blog! (My pleasure!!)

I thought today we could discuss an odd side effect I had from writing this novel.

Why I Gained Weight Writing Tough Girl
Here's lookin' at you Lib.

I'm not a light woman.  Never have been, never will be.  Even when I'm trim, exercise frequently and eat well, I still weigh between 140 and 150 pounds.  Just how I'm made.  So I wasn't exactly surprised that long hours writing in front of a computer led to a weight gain of twenty pounds.

But it wasn't just sitting for extended periods that did it, though anyone who has had an office job can attest to the fact that inactivity isn't great for weight loss.  No, I gained the weight for the same reason I crave a beer whenever I watch a movie about alcoholism.  I experience sympathy cravings.  My need to eat is motivated by my brain way more than my belly.

Reggie, the eleven-year old main character of Tough Girl, never has enough to eat.  She savors every bite she takes during the course of the novel because she's always on the brink of starvation.  And she feels that way from the very beginning of the novel.  She dumpster dives in the early pages, eating cold french fries and half-eaten burgers to keep her hunger pangs at bay.

Writing about a character that is starving (or close to it) can wreak havoc on your own diet.  Half an hour into writing, I would feel hungry, so I'd go and make some soup.  Then a half hour later, I'd feel the need to eat some candy and maybe a few spoonfuls of peanut butter.  The peanut butter looked lonely, so I covered it in chocolate sauce, and that turned quickly into Nutella on toast.  Within weeks of starting Tough Girl, I was snacking constantly to stave off my imaginary hunger pangs.  I'm pretty sure my daily intake of calories increased by over 1,000 calories a day. 

It took me a few months to realize what was happening, and even then, I could not stop it.  I had to write the story.  Tough Girl's been on my mind for years.  But my stomach couldn't take it.  I downed glass after glass of hot tea (a trick a formerly anorexic friend told me about, and one that Reggie uses in the novel as well) and while that helped, I still snacked at a near constant rate.

The novel has been done for months, and while I haven't lost a ton of weight, I have managed to not gain anymore.  I'm considering making my next novel about a chronic over-eater in the hopes that it inspires me to snack less often.  I've also been tempted to write about someone who never wins the lottery, just to see.  

LOL! I vote for the lottery story. Maybe I could be a minor character who wins small? I mean I wouldn't complain about winning a measly couple hundred thousand! 

Thanks for stopping by Libby, thanks fro bringing Reggie to life. I love her so much I want to adopt her. Seriously. 

Get the book for yourself on Amazon.
Follow Libby's blog Here.

Why I Refuse to Write...

What? I like to read in style!
Happy 2013!!!

I'm still chillin' and takin' it easy...refusing to write, work, or pretty much do anything that may be considered productive. 

As a matter of fact, Jessie Andersen asked me to stop by her blog and I said no...I even sent her ten reasons why I will NOT write.

Jessie evidently doesn't understand kicking back and doin' squat...she has a house full of little ones and an award winning book* to look after.

So, if you want to hear my reasons for NOT writing and give Jessie some advice on being a slacker CLICK HERE.

Later gators...I'm going back to enjoying my vacation. 

"At What Cost" is a USA Book News finalist! 
"At What Cost" is now available in print!
Buy it HERE

At What Cost...With Jessie Andersen!


Jessie...in like one of the most awesome author pics ever!



Jessie Andersen (on Facebook as J. Andersen Books) launched her first novel earlier this summer. I profiled the story here on its release and planned an interview with Jessie. However, shortly after her book debuted, her grandfather passed away. So, while Jessie took care of her family, I read the book. When I was finished (and delighted), I just had to ask Jessie a few questions...












In AT WHAT COST, you handle a very serious and highly sensitive subject...teen pregnancy and abortion. What prompted you to write this story? 
The abortion topic has always been at my heart. Not exactly sure why, so when I decided I was going to write my own book, I began praying about a topic. God told me I needed to write about abortion. I said, "Umm, no."  He said, "Umm, yes." He won. 
(Smart not to argue with the Big Guy!)     
You treat the subject very tastefully- without judgement or blame. You're the daughter of a minister and write for a Christian publisher. Most people see the "Christian" response to abortion as the hate mongers who carry baby killer signs outside of clinics. While writing this story, did you think of that at all? Like did you intend to give Christians a fairer representation in the debate or did that just happen by accident?

Yes, I thought of that all the time. Every word I wrote I felt like it was being too judgmental. Or that it was "too Christian". Originally, I had a more churchy storyline planned, but in my heart, I knew it wouldn't work like that. My audience is the secular community, so I needed to write it in such a way that would keep them reading without being too offended. It's a fine line. Just having the abortion topic in the story is going to offend someone. In one sense, I tried to be conscious of that, but I also wanted to show what it's like for a lot of women who've made that choice. I can't say I thought about giving Christians a fairer representation. I guess that just happened.

So far, I've received positive reviews, even had a few people tell me that though the come from "another line of thinking" that I treated the subject fairly and wasn't pushy with my views. This must have been God working, because there's no way I could have done that on my own. :) One woman even told me that she was worried when she read it because, being a friend, she didn't want to not like it. She told me she thought she would have to just read the ending and come up with some great lie, like, "oh, yeah, it was wonderful...", but she finished it and really respected how I dealt with the subject. I'm trying to prepare myself for those nasty reviews, which I'm sure will come with the topic I've chosen, but how do you prepare yourself for something like that?

Another thing I enjoyed about this book is how you touched on the emotional effects of abortion. As a former social worker, I have seen too often the ramifications of the choice and I have personally advocated that women be counseled honestly about depression, lowered self-esteem, sexual dysfunction, and so on linked with abortions. I often wonder, all legal issues aside, if we have "scrubbed" it too much until it is just a "choice" and a "medical procedure". How would you change the pre-abortion counseling that a girl receives before making the decision?


It's hard for me to answer this in detail because I'm not a psychologist or counselor. I know what I believe but I have no training and no background to say what should or shouldn't be done. That said, I think ultra sounds should be mandatory. I think that girls should have to talk to women who have regretted their decision. So many times they just make a choice because it is the easy thing to do without thinking how it might affect them ten years down the road. 

Have you had any negative feedback about the story?
Not yet, but I'm sure I will. :) I keep telling myself that I shouldn't even look at the reviews, but you can't help it. We want people to like us. It's a natural thing. And we want people to like the things we create (Our kids, our work). I'm trying to prepare myself for when that time comes, because I'm sure it will happen sooner or later. Then I'll probably allow myself to cry a bit before I push it aside and get on with writing the stories I feel need to be told. 
    (*If it happens, big IF...I'll send chocolate!)


 I know you are donating part of your sales to a women's center. What kind of services do they provide?
Here's their websiteThey give free pregnancy testing, options counseling, WAIT training in schools, which is an abstinence training. They use the HOPE program, which helps young mothers earn what they need to raise their child and includes parenting education and one-on-one counseling. They also provide after abortion counseling and support groups. 

You can also like them on Facebook HERE
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And finally, since you're no stranger to heated debates...what's the better pet? Dog vs. Cat?
This question isn't fair. I'd say both because I love both, but my hubby hates cats, so we only have dogs. Does that make me a dog person?
Well, I suppose that makes you a dog family! LOL
    Thanks for stopping by Jessie. God bless. :)



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