The Candy Shop
Happy Halloween!! |
50 Cent and my baby, Caleb |
Caleb was my first born.
I read all the books and sweated every choice from cloth diapers to disposables.
I wanted to do everything just right.
Then my grandmother gave this frantic mother the very best advice.
She said, "You know your child better than anyone. You know if he's being bad for sport, or if he's just acting out because he's tired and in need of a nap. Trust your gut and don't ever make choices to please others...or those books you're reading."
It was tough...going with the gut. I showed this picture to the left to a friend, and she exclaimed with shock, "You let him have Mt. Dew?"
I'd never really thought about it. He liked it, so I let him have it.
I cringed a little inside...what if I was screwing my kid up? What if Grandma was wrong?
But he was a happy, well-adjusted kid. His grades were always phenomenal and his behavior was exemplary.
I even let him play violent video games.
Gasp.
I swear, he didn't turn into a serial killer.
I let him sleep with the family dog...even when she might have had fleas.
I never spanked him. Even when he acted like a belligerent brat, and people around me swore it was the cure-all.
I let him follow his own path. Even when that meant wearing gum boots to church and Superman capes to the grocery store.
And you know what?
He's grown up just fine.
As a matter of fact- last week, he got to meet 50 Cent. And yes, he had to buy a bottle of vodka to do it, and yes, he billed the booze to my credit card.
No, I don't mind. I'd have bought a bottle of vodka to get to hang with 50 Cent for a second too.
Oh yeah, I also allowed him to listen to rap in his formative years.
I also encouraged him to party a little in college....as long as he did his homework before he got drunk, rather than after. Drunken homework completion is never a good idea. It's right up there with drunk texting and posting.
See? I give my kids advice.
It's just not the sort of advice Carol Brady would consider appropriate.
Okay, so I suppose I could be considered a bad mother.
But I will tell you- this bad mother raised some awesome kids.
In addition to getting to meet a rap king, Caleb also got his LSAT (law school admissions test) scores back last week.
He was shooting for a 167 out of a possible 180- a decent score he thought could get him into a few good schools he has his eye on.
Well, he scored a 179 out of 180.
One point from perfect.
I guess my grandma was right. I didn't screw up the wonderful human God sent me after all.
Oh, and guess where he's going to go to law school?
Anywhere he wants to.
1. No football this week, but we are play off bound!
2. Did I mention how awesome my kids are? All of them- even the ones I didn't mention.
3. The WV Book Festival was wonderful. I met some new authors who are all sorts of awesome, and time spent with readers is always time well spent.
I better get on the ball! I've been sitting on my manuscript for months. Truth be told, I'm a little afraid to self-publish. You people who have done it...how did you know when you were ready to pull the trigger? Usually, I can count on my publisher to say, "Elizabeth, it's done. Send me the manuscript."
Speaking of Misha Gericke, I'm almost done reading her book, The Vanished Knight. It's a fast-paced story that blends fantasy and YA contemporary. It's about a young girl (Callan) in foster care who is taken in by a rich family and then sent off to boarding school with her two new "brothers". Callan is swept into another realm when she visits a castle on the school grounds. It's an exciting blend of magic, romance, and action.
My only problem in reading this book is not having the proper amount of time to get to the end...I need to know! Who is the voice in her head? Where are her parents? And how will the past relate to the future? I suppose I'll just have to lose a little sleep and find out!
You can check out the book, or even better, buy it HERE!
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